Completeness

We will all go through many cycles of completion in our lives. Even if something feels incomplete, review it, the incompleteness might be the completion of a cycle within you.

Do you start things and not finish them, or get almost to the end and then your commitment just fizzles out? Does your head get into the game and through you off course?

Completeness isnʻt always just about finishing the task. It can be about recognising something about yourself -  a cycle, habit, thought or pattern - as well. It can be a decision that the habit of “not completing” isnʻt in your best interests.

In the same way it can apply to thoughts and ways of thinking. Recognising the Gremlin and deciding to address the fear that the Gremlin gets itʻs teeth into, is a completion. An end of an era even.

Thatʻs the most frustrating thing about trying to change, do something new, shift gears, walk a different path when what youʻve been doing isnʻt working.

Thereʻs often that feeling of incompleteness, of letting yourself down, failing...and the Thought Gremlin will lead you into questions of worth.

But itʻs not true. Itʻs the journey of growing up, no matter how old you are. We tend to often think of things in absolutes. We think in either weʻre winning or weʻre losing. We think winning is good, losing is bad.

Sometimes losing is winning. Losing a limiting pattern is winning. Breaking a habit is winning. Recognising that where you are isnʻt right for you is winning. Standing your ground and delivering your terms in relationships that donʻt work is winning.

Being courageous enough to change direction, to take in new information that 360 degree challenges  something youʻve learned, how you earn your living, what you believe in thatʻs become part of your identity – thatʻs completion…

Completeness isnʻt necessarily about the achievement you think itʻs going to be. Even if you have to fight yourself to finish something like a Training Course, staying the distance and giving Gremlins the boot is the achievement. Giving it your best shot is the achievement. Knowing the pattern is the achievement.

And using the experience to look within is an achievement too. Itʻs completing a cycle and launching another.

▶ So what to do? Look at Completeness beyond the Finish. If you look only toward the finish line, youʻre in danger of never finishing because then finishing is about Percerption - the truth is there isnʻt a Finish Line.

The line will always shift and move with your growth. Wholeness, which is a component of Completeness, is an evergreen opening of new doors and new horizons. You take with you all that you are and move into it.

Eras end. Time done ends. Completeness is a continual adventure of discovering more of who you are. And with each cycle, thereʻs a feeling of accomplishment of the energy expended that takes you into the next step, and a new cycle begins... Aloha, Kumu Julia Nālani x

🌴 PS: Hoʻoponopoono is a traditional healing process we use to help break blocks, heal inner conflict, heal old hurts and wounds, to complete an era. You can work with me online and in my healing studio. I also have Practitioners in Europe who can work with you too. Let me know what you need…